We were at one of my softball tournaments and this mom from the other team was talking a bunch of hard talk about me. She was saying things that were not very nice and instead of my mom blowing up on her, she just told her that she wasn't being very nice and she would appreciate it if she kept her comments to herself. My mo is the type that if you get her real angry, then she will blow up on someone, but from that day she realized that she would be wrong for blowing up on the woman.